Calm, private tools for women going through divorce or separation — built by someone who has sat on every side of it.
Whatever stage of separation or divorce you’re in, you’re not starting from nothing. Three places people usually start.
The Divorce Survival System is the calm, guided workbook for the whole of a divorce or separation — including a scripts vault for the conversations you’re dreading.
Every message can start to feel like it needs a strategy. The Parent Log gives you a private, dated place to keep the record straight — so you’re not relying on memory when it matters.
The Single-Parent Money Plan helps you see where you stand after a separation, and plan the year ahead — gently, and privately.
Each one does a single job, and does it privately. Buy what you need, when you need it.
A calm, guided workbook for the whole of it — the emotional stages and the practical ones, including a scripts vault for the conversations you’re dreading with a difficult ex. The thing to reach for when you don’t know where to start.
Get the workbookThe one thing recommended to every client: document, don’t engage. A private, dated record of contact, money and incidents — courts work on facts, not feelings, and this is where you keep yours. Stays on your device.
Get the Parent LogA gentle, private way to see where you stand when the costs that used to be shared are suddenly yours alone — and to plan the year ahead.
Get the Money PlanAll three — the workbook, the Parent Log and the Money Plan — together, at a saving. Everything, in one place.
Get the bundleNo tool can make separation and divorce easy. What these can do is give you a hand to hold and practical ways to feel more in control — one piece at a time.
What you write is yours alone — nothing sent anywhere, seen by no one, unless you choose to share it. A space that's genuinely just for you.
Keep track of what actually happened — dates, contact, money, how the children are doing. So you're not relying on memory alone when it counts.
Shaped by a family solicitor, mediator and divorce coach who has lived her own separation — so the tone is real, and the practical parts genuinely hold up when you're in it.
Exactly what I needed.
Early readerHelped me refocus on my reactions, rather than his behaviour.
Early tester · Divorce Survival SystemSo much going on — logging everything has been a godsend.
Early tester · Parent LogReal feedback from the first people to try Ask Jane — thank you.
Jane was a very close friend of mine, and a fellow solicitor. She had a gift for making people feel steady in their worst moments — wise beyond her years, and always at the end of a phone. Jane helped me through some of my darkest moments. She left this earth far too soon, tragically and suddenly, at a young age.
I built this in her memory — to give other women the same steadiness and wisdom she once gave me.
The founderBehind Ask Jane is a family lawyer, mediator and divorce coach who has advised on divorce and separation for years — and who has lived it herself. She knows what the rollercoaster feels like from the inside, and how to find your footing again.
“I built the things I wish I’d had.”
No jargon, no false cheer, no pretending it’s simple. Just steady, practical support for the parts that are hardest to carry alone.
CredentialsSolicitor, England & Wales · Accredited Family Mediator · Trained Divorce Coach, accredited with the bodies below.